Relationships abhor a vacuum. Whenever one person refuses to mark and fight for their territory the other person will occupy the treasured ground either by default or by committing an act of aggression.

Kilroy J. Oldster
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Relationships abhor a vacuum. Whenever one person refuses to mark and fight for their territory the other person will occupy the treasured ground either by default or by committing an act of aggression. This means that in a relationship, the most important factor is how you relate to your partner. If you do not communicate with them, they will project their feelings on to you and this space called ‘vacuum’ will be filled with their emotions.

Source: Dead Toad Scrolls

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